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Muslim Lesbian: Balancing Faith and Sexuality

Posted on 31 May 2008 by ana_a

As a muslim, I practice my faith out of love and conviction with the steadfast affirmation that my God is a loving one. I can’t imagine that God created LGBT (Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender) individuals just so we can be made to suffer a life of celibacy/ denial or apostasy. Telling me or my community that this is God’s test of our faith just doesn’t cut it either. Sweeping the issue under the rug or comparing homosexuality with criminal acts serves no purpose other than perpetuate and exhibit ignorance. Rape, pedophilia, bestiality or elitist genocidal dictatorship (ala Hilter) are acts that involve perpetrators and victims. Contrary to popular belief, homosexuality typically involves consenting adults (aka opposite of criminal + victim) and most of us have no desire to morally corrupting you or your family (maybe just that bigoted, closeted homophobe next door).

If anything, we are often the victims of hate crime as well as of judicial and spiritual neglect. For example, as per my article on Transsexualism in Malaysia, transgendered Malaysians with the exception of hermaphrodites have no judicial rights to official change their gender even post-surgery. Another example is that the five countries that punish homosexuality by death are officially Islamic: Saudi Arabia, Iran, Mauritania, Sudan and Yemen. Judicial neglect isn’t limited to Islamic countries, gay marriages are not recognized federally in the US. Texas even has state laws punishing sodomy. And don’t even get me started on the hate crimes!

In an example of spiritual neglect, most Islamic schools(Hanafi, Maliki, Ja’afari, Shafi’i) considers people engaging in same-sex intercourse are adulterers if they are married and fornicators if they are not. For the latter, we won’t be fornicators if the religious or judicial laws allow us to get married to our partners now, would we? For the former, if society and religious believers are more open to homosexuals, perhaps one need not resort having fake heterosexual lives. This issue holds true for many religions not just Islam.

I believe it is important to elevate awareness of and for LGBT religious believers. Religion needs to evolve with its believers. For illustration purposes, I did some quick rudimentary math (because I am geeky that way):
Let’s assume that currently Moslems are about 22% of the world population. Now, let’s assume that 5% of the world population do indeed identify themselves as a part of the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgendered) community . Accordingly, there are potentially 73 million LGBT Moslems around the world based on 1.1% of 6.7 billion world population. The numbers are highly theoretical but the point is that there is potentially a large number LGBT Moslems. Arguing that all 73 million LGBT Moslems should be stoned to death, locked up till death, become atheists or celibate is not a scalable solution, very economical or convivial to a sizable chunk of the world population. Again, this problem holds true for any other religious believers not just Islam.

I propose we re-evaluate religious points of views we were brought up with. An example of reassessment is in the contextual lessons one can draw from Lot passages (source: Quran 7:80-82, 11: 70-85, 15: 66–74, 26:165-175, 27:55-58, 29:28-29). Along with rudely trying to bugger Lot’s angelic guests without of their consent (i.e. rape) and the will of their host, Lot’s people were guilty of many other things such as committing financial & political injustice (pg 993-995), infidelity, and moral transgression in the form of rampant intercourse, greed and unchecked lust according to Abdullah Yusuf Ali’s interpretation of the Quran (pg 366-367, 630-631, 927). Isn’t the better lesson to learn is to practice monogamous relationships and conduct responsible reasonable respectful actions as opposed to wholesale condemnation of homosexuality?

Sects of Christianity such as Anglican church, Episcopalian churches and Buddhism are some examples of religious bodies that already moved towards integrating the LGBT believers into their community. When is our turn?

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Malaysian lesbian: Am I a practicing Muslim?

Posted on 31 May 2008 by ana_a

I spent last weekend with some friends in San Francisco. We took three energetic dogs to two different parks, watched cute girls pass us by as we ate lunch at Tartine’s – fabulous bakery on Guerrero and 18th. I had just met one of the girls in our group that day. She and my other friends apparently haven’t seen each other in a while.

In one of our conversations as we were playing chase with the dogs, she mentioned nonchalantly that she believes that all religions are a hoax and that she no longer believes in god. She punctuated her statement by adding she had bacon for breakfast the morning before.

To give you more of a context, the new friend is an ex-Muslim. I stopped petting my friend’s fluffy Chow as I contemplated the news she just broke.

She had asked me if I was a practicing Muslim. I had a hard time answering her.

Read the full article at: thecicak.com

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Transsexualism in Malaysia: Syariah Court annuls same-sex marriage

Posted on 31 May 2008 by ana_a

In September 2007, the Syariah Court annulled Mohd Sufian Mohamad and Zaiton Aziz’s marriage. The court issued the couple a permanent divorce, despite Zaiton Aziz saying that she was in a physically and emotionally satisfying union.

The judge who presided over the case declared the same-sex marriage illegitimate because of Mohd Sufian’s original gender designation.

The judge who presided over the case declared the same-sex marriage illegitimate because of Mohd Sufian’s original gender designation.

According to a New Straits Times article, three doctors had conducted physical examinations and blood tests on Mohd Sufian and concluded that he is a woman.

The doctors should have conducted a psychological or psychiatric evaluation to determine Mohd Sufian’s state of mind.

Read the full article at: thecicak.com

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What it means to be a gay Malaysian

Posted on 21 May 2008 by ana_a

I recently had a very interesting discussion with my alter ego about gay Malaysians.

“Wat you mean gay Malaysians? Of course la, Malaysia got a lot of gay people. Why not meh, weather is great, no big natural disasters, economy also can. Everybody happy lor!�?

Alas, though the thought of a large gay population in Malaysia is pleasant, there probably aren’t that many gay Malaysians in Malaysia. If one were to follow the Kinsey rule of thumb, there are about 2 million gay individuals in Malaysia - about 10 percent of the Malaysian population.

Read the full article at: thecicak.com

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